Daddy Ali Cat is in the Navy. He actually re-joined the Navy on the same day we got married. The Captain that commissioned him said he was ruining his life in a single day. Ha!
I digress.
Since re-joining the military, he has had a great desire to deploy during the current war. He compared not deploying to seeing a friend in a fight and not being able to help the friend. It hurt him to not go.
While I do not share that feeling, I am compassionate and glad we have people in this country that WANT to do it for our nation. He wants to protect our land, family, friends, and strangers. I think he also wanted to experience war. Men and their curiosity. As much as it hurt me to see him leave me and the girls, I could not hold him back. What kind of wife would I be if I restrained him doing something he desperately needed to to? Not to mention that deploying is also good for his career.
We have two daughters Ali (3) and Madeleine (16 months). Madeleine is a mamas girl and dainty like moi. Ali is a tiny female version of Daddy. She likes rough housing, playing chase, being dirty and defiant, and LOVES her Daddy. They are two peas in a pod. When Daddy Ali Cat was doing his deployment training, he was gone for about 6 weeks. We were able to see him once in a while during but it was a nice trial period before he actually left. Ali seemed to handle that well, probably because we saw him on the weekends.